Go to mobile site. You can watch it by clicking here. Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. Let the tongue go deeper, suck the clit, its shaft and hood the whole central area of the pussy in and out of your mouth. The Spoon is simple, relaxing and intimate. Positions for oral sex are pretty universal.

She is dependent for her sexual satisfaction on the actions of her partner, who can choose the type and pace of the sexual activity and can introduce sex toys. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. Learn how to talk about sex. Email me at ali [at] autostraddle. This gives you and your partner control over where you're mouth is, and let's you come together in a very intimate way.

This list is a great way to get started, but we're sure you can come up with some creative ideas of your own.